What should a FTM feeling

I feeling hurt and angry that my partner said such words in front of my 17mth old baby 哪有你这样的妈妈的 都是妈妈的错，没把你的衣服着好害了爸爸 I was the one cook, wash dishes, hand wash my son wearing, feed my son, shower my son, clean toilet, sweep & mop entire house and laundry. Then he ask me mad ah. He don’t even feel guilty of the words he said. I curious am I do anything wrong When I devotion today I read to forgiving but I kept on thinking. Am I so wrong. I feel hurt and so angry.