Feeling so mellow & guilt

SAHM here, will sent our daughter for fullday childcare aka playgroup next month (because he centre dont hv halfday & hubby will complain this and that if change mind). Feel guilt & mellow, because for this 17month plus, everyday everyminute & every second spent time with her. Decided to send her their, hope maybe i can help hubby to earn some extra money & little girl can learn more instead at home alone with me only. But the feeling can’t be lie & explain to anyone including husband. Eventhou still less than 1month to send her there, the feeling will sooooo sad.. how to get rid of this feeling😥😥😥i know its for her own good too, because i belief age below 3 is a crucial or golden age for children to learn & accept all new thing.. #advicepls #firsttimemom

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why force yourself to get rid of this feeling? it’s not wrong to experience it and it’s very normal to grieve for the time you’ll lose with her. when the time approaches, see it as opening up a world of learning for her.. you’re right to think that way, it’s a good opportunity for her to learn and socialize. and as for yourself, embark on a new journey as a toddler mum on a new job. invest in yourself too. and you’ll find new ways to bond with your toddler. it’s not getting rid of the feeling that’s important, it’s how you manage and grow out of it.

It is normal to have such feelings in the beginning. Next time when you see the things she learned from school, then you will think you have made a right choice. Try to do some part time or community service during your free time and I think it would help you get rid of that feeling

Why are you feeling guilty and sad? Is a good thing that she attend sch and learn to interact with others and learn new things. I want to send to sch also got no slots. Get yourself occupied with new things or even get a job.

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