Currently me and hubby will do the clean up with my kids, form that habit so they'll do it themselves

Yes. It has become a routine after much reinforcement. Consistency in reminders.

she needs me to always remind her to tidy her toys after playing. 😅

i think they would need some guidance on what is tidy & what is considered messy

Had to keep reminding till it became s habit to clean after his own toys

She’s enjoys neat and tidy environment and prefers to keep it that way

Yes. I taught my kid to keep their stuff back and keep the area tidy.

I will remind and train them to be neat and tidy

Always relying on the helper to tidy the room

But that is only when they show their temper