Post partum is a lonely journey

Its only been a few days since ive given birth and man, post partum is so lonely. You’re always being left alone, as everybody is so focused on baby and always want to surround baby. While you, the mother, is being pushed away. You don’t really have anyone there for you, like really there for you. I find myself crying every single day And after given birth, i find that my husband like only wants the baby and not me. People often forget that the mummy would also want someone to care for them too, physically and emotionally. #FTM

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It is indeed super lonely! Especially when you’re also dealing with a whole lot of new stuff. Super hard to adapt to new changes. But fight thru! Talk to your friends and husband about it. Sometimes they might not understand at all. But just have topics to talk about keep urself entertained. When you have the time, get your rest!!! Sleep in if you can!! Sleep makes the time pass faster! 😂😂 But you got this!

Sounds ironic but I miss being alone so much since baby is born. Take the time to rest and heal. Eat good food, watch a good show, take full nap and sleep, reward yourself for bringing life into the world. Text your friends for chats. Speak to your husband when baby’s asleep. Indulge while you can cause sleepiness nightsssssssss are coming!

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