Ask the Expert: Nurturing Emotional Intelligence From Early Childhood

Helping children recognize, express, and manage their emotions is just as important as teaching them to walk and talk. Emotional intelligence shapes how kids handle challenges, build relationships, and develop self-confidence—starting from their earliest years and continuing through childhood. This week, we have Meeta Gupta Hari, Counsellor at Reconnect Singapore, joining us for an exclusive Ask the Expert session! Whether you're navigating toddler tantrums, guiding a school-aged child through friendships, or wondering how to foster emotional awareness at home, this is your chance to ask an expert. 💬 Drop your questions from March 19-25 📅 Live answering session: March 26 at 12 PM Let’s equip our kids with the emotional tools they need for life. Ask your questions in the comments below! ⬇️ #AskTheExpert #RaisingEmotionallyStrongKids #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment

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My daughter is super shy... it's a bit strange because both of her parents are extroverts to the fullest 😅 When strangers talk to her, she will just hide behind me and refuse to respond.... How do I help her build confidence in social situations?

Meeta Gupta Hari

Counsellor at Reconnect Singapore

8mo ago

Dear Anon, Thank you for writing in. We are all unique, each with our own personalities and behaviors. While I don’t know your daughter’s age, if she’s younger than 5 or 6 years old, it’s quite normal for children of this age to be shy. To little ones, strangers can feel like a source of danger, which is why she may hide behind you—she sees you as her safe space and protector. Allow her to listen to her instincts when it comes to approaching strangers, and don't pressure her to speak with people she’s not comfortable with. If she’s able to play with children her own age and engage with familiar adults, like grandparents or teachers, there’s no need to worry. She will gain confidence by observing you in social situations and gradually learn how to navigate them herself. All the best!

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