Need to rant: I just cant help feeling sad and angry for hearing this coming from my own mum: Bro: baby girl is coming soon, wonder hw cute she will be or just as cute as the gor gor(no1) Mum: don bother to dream, baby girl wont be adorable one, even so also wont be as cute as the gor gor. She cfm wont be attractive one. Don bother hoping so much. She will be like her mother, inherit all her mother's bad genes. Be just the same unattractive person like her mum. This is just annoying and a pain to hear this. Whether anot she dislikes me, she shouldnt have commented such things to my son or whoever. Mum has always saying bad things abt my baby girl, making comparisons between them. Kept telling my no1, hw gd he is and my mum will only dote on him and wont dote on his sis. #testingmypatience

Look at yourself, dear. For the “unattractive” person you are, you have a man that loves you and have 2 beautiful children. I think that speaks louder than what your mum is saying. Your mother also passed you her genes, by the way. As for your beautiful princess that’s coming, I’m very happy that you’ll be there to break this cycle of negativity towards girls in the family. Use your experiences to empower her, and to show her that she is priceless and precious. Just my opinion here.. if it comes to a point, after your daughter is born, where your mum is still being nasty to your daughter, give her an ultimatum: either stop her nonsense or she will not get to see both grandchildren anymore till she can get her act together. No one should be made to feel unloved by their grandparents.