2nd pregnancy delivery

Question

hello mummies!had my 1st appt last week and was confirmed 12weeks pregnant. doctor was concerned about this 2nd pregnancy as i had a 3rd degree tear for my 1st delivery in 2020. he then referred me to specialist to check the area muscle in 3 weeks time. was told if my anus and around that area muscle is weak, may need to opt for c-sect realised i cant sit long enough or my anus will feel abit pain but not so sure bc i work office based and sit quite alot (im small built hence my butt no enough cushion 😅 and feel this even before this 2nd pregnancy)1st delivery: normal assisted delivery (vacuum) / epi /  40+1 weeks / induced for 23hrs and pushed for 2hrs / 3rd degree tearqns is, any mummies same situation as me and still managed to go for normal delivery? :(#pleasehelp #advicepls #pregnancy #worried

Anonymous · Answer

Remember that a cesarean is a major procedure and should only be turned to when there’s a real threat to baby or mummy’s health and well-being. I would recommend that you do listen and consider the options the specialist and your doctor gives. At the same time, find ways to ensure that the tear doesn’t occur again for your 2nd birth. There are many ways to this such as - perineal massages at 37 weeks onwards - explore different birthing positions instead of only being on your back I have mummy friends that have pushed 4kg babies and 4.5kg babies out, with no medical interventions and unassisted. Trust your body will provide a safe passage for your baby’s birth. All the best! Hope this helps :)