Sex after being a mother

Hey Mummies! I'm a FTM who delivered in Nov 2019. Since then, I'm just so tired from taking care of baby, doing housework and work stuff. Sex is definitely the last thing I think of. My husband has been bringing up then we haven't had sex for so many months. But I just feel so dry and totally no mood for it. Don't even feel like being intimate or being touched. On the other hand, I feel guilty for not satisfying his desire too. Sigh, any mummies feel this way too? How long after delivery did you have sex again?

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Understand how you feel. Try to relax yourself. Maybe can have sex over the weekend. Maybe can get your hubby to look after and do some house work to lessen your tiredness. I feel that not having sex for too long is not very good. Especially when during pregnancy we also difficult to have sex. What I do was 1 month once. Slowly baby get bigger then to 1 week once. At least better then don't have. Talk to hubby. Let him understand.

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