Overly worried mother

Hi mommies, I’m having my 1st baby so I do not hav any prior experiences before. I’m now only 10 weeks in so it’s just my first trimester. Am I the only one whom’s overly worried with whether my baby is still alive because I had friends whom’s baby no longer have a heartbeat by the time they attend their next gynaecologist visit. I do get some cramps here and there sometimes but it’s not severe and I also still have the morning sickness symptoms. But my gynaecologist visit is only scheduled for once a month, it’s will be costly and quite ridiculous if I go to the gynaecologist for an ultrasound every week so any suggestions on what I should/can do?? 🥺 #advicepls

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honestly, I feel you. I feel exactly the way you feel.. I have been trying to conceive for 3 years and was blessed with my current pregnancy so I am very worried too with each visit to my gynae.. Every time before I enter the room to see my doctor, I will start to think about all the what ifs and pray in anxiety that I can see the healthy baby moving in every scan.. After seeing baby, I will let out a sigh of relief.. its hard not to worry especially as a first time mom but I do tell myself to have faith and believe that my baby is here to stick.. friends around me and hub also tell me to relax and worrying too much ain't gonna do good or change any outcome that I can't possibly control. I've not stopped worrying but I am trying to take it easy one step at a time. Jiayou fellow mommy!!

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4y ago

thank you so much.. i too hope that you have a smooth pregnancy with a healthy baby all the way till you hold him/her in your arms ❤