Ask for help. If you need professional help, go. Walang masamang humingi ng tulong. I have 2 toddlers, 1 at 3. If feeling ko nabuburn out ako, nagpapatulong ako sa husby ko or sa family member. I also ask for 20 mins break a day, good bath can help you relax, eat the food you want. Tapos have your panganay involved sa pagaalaga sa bunso niyo para hindi siya left behind. Andiyan ka naman to look after them at magguide. Kayang kaya mo yan mommy. Yan din biggest fear ko before but I juggled it up.