M i not right to celebrate my lo 1st bday since i did it on her 1st mth? My f mil says no pt doing since bby no memory plus aldy did her 1st mth liao.. Den my hub follow n agreed.. This is an ivf baby.. My precious lil baby.. I feel even not ivf dont our babies the most impt ones to us? m not gng to do it big coz i dun hv much money.. Just buffet n cake.. I dun uds y this f mil so kns!! My mummy say we shall just carry n do it n ignore the mil n hubby.. They dun1 is their problem, we as dil just inform.. That day come jiu come, no come jiu sua.. Wad u all think?

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Just ignore her. First of all, she won't be contributing to this event. Secondly, are u going to be using her place? If no, even more u don't need to seek her permission. For me, for my first child, i did a birthday part. Just buffet and cakes. Called relatives and friends. Simple but a happy function. Just as a respect, inform them as a formality, if they don't attend, just don't take it to heart. Just ignore and move on and enjoy the celebration

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Home Just Mums m i not right celebrate lo 1st bday since i did 1st mth f mil says pt doing since bby memory plus aldy did 1st mth liaoden hub follow n agreed ivf baby precious lil baby i feel not ivf dont babies most impt ones m not gng big coz i dun hv much money buffet n cakei dun uds y f mil kns mummy say shall carry n n ignore mil n hubby dun1 their problem dil inform that day come jiu come come jiu suawad think