I'm crying now while I type. My first born is 2yo now. We used to slp tgt. But nw that my newborn came to this world, I sleep with my newborn as I bf him. Sleeping separate from him is so that my first born will not be disturbed by my newborn when he cries. He sleeps with my hub. Now, whenever I want to sleep with him while my newborn naps (daddy in living room), he won't want me. He will say, "i dont want mummy. I want papa". It breaks my heart. We used to baby talk alot and sing before he sleeps. Now they can only be memories. My first baby doesn't want me anymore.

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I feel you mummy. But it's normal. Just do what you think would be best at this situation. As your tot grows, he will understand the situation better and will warm up to you again.

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Home Toddler im crying now while i type first born 2yo now used slp tgt but nw that newborn came world i sleep with newborn i bf him sleeping separate from him that first born not disturbed newborn when cries sleeps with hub now whenever i want sleep with him while newborn naps daddy in living room wont want say i dont want mummy i want papa breaks heart used baby talk alot sing before sleeps now only memories first baby doesnt want anymore