To keep or to terminate?

I’m 6weeks pregnant. Informed my fiancè about it last week & he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. Reasons - he is not ready & unstable. His point, It is an early stage of pregnancy so terminating it is fine. 🙄 I’m a career woman in my 30s. It has been giving me a lot of stress then I began to spot/bleed at week 5. Doc puts me on 2 weeks progesterone to support the pregnancy.. I’m so confused & lost. #pleasehelp

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you have to ask yourself if you truly would like to keep the baby or not. Well since you are a career woman, just feels that you are not dependable to anyone, if you yourself feels that you can take care of the baby irregardless of him or not then u go ahead. a guy is nv really ready for anything. my guy also made me wait for him so long and also not ready after so many years after which I insist that I want whether he is ready or not.im also a career woman too, I will handle it myself cause I feel that I would want to have.. to me if you feel you yourself can take care and manage and wouldn't regret, its your decision to make. I would feel that if a guy who would truly love you will not say that its early stage to terminate, as termination will harm your body physically n mentally in future. I would think its you can make a decision and move on cause he is just a fiance and if he wants to continue then ok but if he chose not then well the baby is ur decision to make anyway. have to be a strong minded person too in order to go through it in future. I do regret till now that I should have make my decision earlier cause now in my early 40s then being a parents is so so tiring.

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