do what feels right to you. that’s the most important thing of all - not because everyone feels you should keep or not keep, but because you want to. I’ve had an abortion once and it’s the most painful decision I made in my life. However, what I regret is not that I had the abortion, but the poor decisions that led to that moment. It’s been 6 years and not a day goes by that I don’t think about the baby I chose to give up, but I knew that I wasn’t ready to be a mother then and I didn’t want him or her to suffer for my mistakes. I am also in my 30s and now pregnant again, but this time in a completely different circumstance where I know we both want the baby and will give our everything for her. My experiences have really made me cherish what I have now, but of course I still have fears that creep in all the time and you must know that you will have to live with that if you choose to abort. We can’t change the mistakes we already made (or the horrid guys we choose to devote ourselves to) but there is always a choice to make the future better.
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