What kind of man he is. What does he mean he is not ready and unstable? Earning $10k, $20k per month? Even so, probably he will say still not ready (I know someone earning $20k+ per month still say not enough). Mental not ready? Then in the first place he should take precautions or only make love when he is ready and stable. If you have health issue which leave you with no choice but to abort then is understandable.
He is simply a selfish and irresponsible sperm donor. He does not value the innocent life you're carrying and want you to go through both mental and physical pain to abort. There are many couples who want to have child(ren) but unable to. Also, as you are 30s now, you may have difficulty to conceive again should you decide to abort. You may also feel guilty after you abort and it may haunt you for life. Hope you think carefully before you make decision.
I am sorry if my words are harsh. Take care and rest well.🌈💪
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