To keep or to terminate?

I’m 6weeks pregnant. Informed my fiancè about it last week & he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. Reasons - he is not ready & unstable. His point, It is an early stage of pregnancy so terminating it is fine. 🙄 I’m a career woman in my 30s. It has been giving me a lot of stress then I began to spot/bleed at week 5. Doc puts me on 2 weeks progesterone to support the pregnancy.. I’m so confused & lost. #pleasehelp

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Has he properly thought this through? Guys tend to take movie culture references at face value, but there is a lot more to be considered as a couple. What if you guys cannot conceive after the abortion? How would this affect your relationship and emotional well-being in future? Is this a decision you may regret in future? It is not an easy decision and it will be life changing, so do take your time to research, talk to doctors about the risks and think this through properly so you can tell your future self you had done your best and made the best choice under the circumstances. Whichever decision you choose is a respectable one, as long as you can own it with pride. There is a cutoff time before abortion is practicable so do bear that in mind too.

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