To keep or to terminate?

That is really very selfish of him. The baby is innocent and every life is precious. My personal opinion, I’ll keep the baby and dump the guy. Such a heartless and irresponsible man isn’t ready to be in committed relationship much less marriage. Of course, ultimately it’s about you and what’s best for you. Physically at this age, it might be very tough to conceive again and the risks gets higher. If you decide to go ahead with the pregnancy - with or without him - it’s important that you commit to being a parent and form a strong support network to help you through. If not, emotionally, can you live with the guilt and possible regret for the rest of your life if you abort? May you have the strength to think it through and make the best decision for yourself. Regardless of what others think or say, you’re stronger than what you think and I wish you well.