You have to ask yourself if you’re ready to be responsible for the baby. I had an abortion last year. I kept telling the baby that it isn’t the right time, and now I’m pregnant again. It’s afterall your own decision. My husband supports me in whatever I choose to do, so I hope your fiancé/husband-to-be is supporting you the same way too.
But then again you have to think of your age. I am younger than you, probably why I could conceive easily again.
If you decide on abortion, do not let yourself be clouded with other thoughts and confuse yourself, or make yourself feel bad. Because I honestly don’t feel bad. I did what I had to at that point in my life. It might seem selfish to other people but I wanted to make sure that I could manage myself without dragging a life into this world and not give it the attention it deserves. You have to do this on your own, I’m afraid. Make the decision fast.
Ive heard some people decide on abortion and then change their mind after seeing the ultrasound and hearing the heartbeat.
I went to Dr Jen Shek Wei – Abortion Clinic in amk. He was very very nice and not judgmental.
I hope my story can help in any way!:) stay strong
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