To keep or to terminate?

I’m 6weeks pregnant. Informed my fiancè about it last week & he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. Reasons - he is not ready & unstable. His point, It is an early stage of pregnancy so terminating it is fine. 🙄 I’m a career woman in my 30s. It has been giving me a lot of stress then I began to spot/bleed at week 5. Doc puts me on 2 weeks progesterone to support the pregnancy.. I’m so confused & lost. #pleasehelp

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Abortion is NEVER the right answer unless because of health issues. Abortion has health risks. Think for yourself, not him. You MAY NEVER have a baby again. This happened to many, my friend included. You WILL live with the guilt for as long as you live. Not scaring you but like I've typed above, abortion has risks. Your fiance is not ready to be a father but does he know the consequences of having sex in the first place? It takes a simple common sense for this. Being a career woman won't make me regret this decision and bring my baby up by myself. Your baby is worth it, worth to live and deserves to live. There is alot of single women out there who is a supermum, bringing up their baby all by themself. I was once a single mum too, a divorcee with a baby in hand. Not an easy journey, I swear, but it's all worth it! Seeing my baby grows up healthily, it was and still is worth it. Just imagine if you were to marry him in the future? He can do this to you now, he will probably do it again.

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