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i m going through a divorce. Currently my son and myself staying with my parents. I dont want to go back my house because my husb is abusive and he is having affair. i stay wif my parents, i think i can get a support both emotional and mental. Begining my mom was very understanding, its been freaking 6months, i feel so dammm f irratated by her, she keep telling me bcozz of me she is stress, asthma, her health not gd, she keep insisting me she needs a maid as she cant cope with 7room flat, staying with autistic 2 siblings of mine, dad, 2 dogs. i m feeling like a m a burden to her.. i m f stressed up but i dun show. i m sick n tired. i told her be patience, wait till my divorce and house is over, we can plan to hav helper. the moment i talk abt my bro and my sil, my mother nt happy, she keep saying they hv their house and own things. Me n my daughter staying at my mother house wer she think i must hv some responsiblity to do n work. i am a single mother. My father is a breadwinner of the house. i can fully understand that....i m tired seriously.

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This sound like a really hard situation - things WILL get better, but it will be hard to think that now. Do you have a friend you can chat with, or perhaps visit for a few days - this may give you and your mum some time apart and a what sounds like a much needed break from each other? Otherwise perhaps take you mum out for a coffee and have a heart to hear with her - ask if there are things you can do to help. Things will get better, hang in there!

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