Feeling depressed

I just delivered my baby about 20days ago via cesarean. I am doing my confinement now and I don’t feel good with everything. I just feel that I am very ugly (because of my bulgy tummy), dirty (because of confinement, I can’t wash my hair every day and I am still bleeding) and pain everywhere (wound, nipples and breast pain as I am only pumping and not latching). Does anyone else feel that way as well? My baby doesn’t want me when she cries as well. Sigh. #1stimemom #advicepls

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I think you might be feeling some baby blues or perhaps a little stress? As for the tummy, don’t worry bout it now and worry bout it later. I bathe & wash my hair daily though, but I do it in the day, with herbal water & blow dry immediately . I can’t stand not doing it . I’m not latching too, only pumping & I understand how hard breastfeeding can be. But hang in there! As for the baby, I’m sure ur baby wants you, they want mummy

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