Feeling depressed

I just delivered my baby about 20days ago via cesarean. I am doing my confinement now and I don’t feel good with everything. I just feel that I am very ugly (because of my bulgy tummy), dirty (because of confinement, I can’t wash my hair every day and I am still bleeding) and pain everywhere (wound, nipples and breast pain as I am only pumping and not latching). Does anyone else feel that way as well? My baby doesn’t want me when she cries as well. Sigh. #1stimemom #advicepls

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You might be having baby blues..take one day at a time ok.. I understand abt ur confinement rules but why not try to shower properly and maybe wash yr hair with herbal or something.. its impt to keep very clean during this period.. on top of tht it helps us to feel fresh and to me, helps to keep my mind fresh also 😅 seek help frm yr husb n family.. bonding with baby takes alott of time dont worry abt it ok!

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