I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

when ever u feel tht way, think abt ur son, ur marriage, ur husband, parents, in laws. it is perfect family, am I right, if u do 1 mistake. entire life ll be disturbed. if u think, wht big deal, I ll do it, who ll knw, u knw wht ll happen, later it ll haunt u, u ll feel guilty. tht guy ll leave like tht, no, he may try again, things ll change, Sme or other way it ll cme out.