How can I handle kids of different age group like I have three kids 14,12,4

Hi mum, so you have a young kid, a pre-teen and a teen at home! wow :) my younger one is the same age as your youngest, so i can definitely help you on that. i guess at this age your child is at the highest IQ and development stage. as a result, it is very important that you spend enough time with the young one. also, kids have a tendency to follow their older siblings, so you will have to explain this to your older kids. at 4 years of age, your youngest is highly prone to pick up habits and such. my kids haven't really hit their teens yet, so I won't be able to give you a personal experience suggestion on that. but some relatives do have teens and i can also talk about my own experiences as one. during the pre-teen and teen years, your kids will come across a host of other kids. this is also the time when kids get most influenced and affected by peer pressure. as a parent, you should definitely talk a lot to them to understand what's going on in their lives. also, start placing trust in them and tell them that you are proud of them and believe in them. when they realize how much parents value them as kids, and how much faith you have put in them, they will try to give more importance to family values and such. also, make time together as a family and ensure all your kids feel connected, loved and appreciated :)