Hi mummies, is your child the only child? Are you trying to have a second one? As I cant decide to have another one or not. Lately my daughter told me that she is very bored as no one plays with her. I would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind (eg. to send to infant care or to get maid, to start all over again, it is very tiring and beside I had a miscarriage last year). The fear is still there.

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I had the same thought with my son, but my hubby and I decided that 2 is better than 1. For his sake, when we pass on, he'll at least have 1 other family member to share the loss or "burden" of looking after us. It is very tiring for a mum and it also meant that I have to put my career on hold for another 2 years. But it is absolutely worth it!

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Home Just Mums hi mummies is your child the only child are you trying to have a second one as i cant decide to have another one or not lately my daughter told me that she is very bore as no one plays with her i would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind eg to send to infant care or to get maid to start all over again it is very tiring and beside i had a miscarriage last year the fear is still there