Hi mummies, is your child the only child? Are you trying to have a second one? As I cant decide to have another one or not. Lately my daughter told me that she is very bored as no one plays with her. I would like to have another one but too many thoughts and worries in my mind (eg. to send to infant care or to get maid, to start all over again, it is very tiring and beside I had a miscarriage last year). The fear is still there.

i have only one daughter and till now i have not felt the need to have another. what you are saying is something i understand, because my daughter also keeps asking me for a sibling to play with. it is absolutely your decision to have a second child but you also have to keep your health in mind. make sure htat you first ensure you are in good health and speak to your doc about it. also, you will have to understand your finances and how you will manage both the kids. on the other hand, a friend of mine was not sure whether to have a second baby but did have at a gap of 8 years. the elder one has taken over so much of the baby care duties! and they bond really well too despite the age gap. there are pros and cons to both so do understand your own situation and then decide