🧠 Ask The Expert: Protecting Your Family’s Health – Understanding Autoimmune Risks & Prevention

Have you ever wondered if certain recurring symptoms like constant fatigue, joint pain, unexplained rashes, could be signs of something more serious? 🧬 Autoimmune diseases often go undiagnosed for years, silently affecting women and even young children. Left unchecked, they can lead to long-term complications that impact daily life, fertility, and overall health. Do you know the early warning signs? Are you doing enough to reduce your family’s risk? You're not alone, and now’s your chance to get trusted, expert advice. Drop your questions now and Dr. Anindita Santosa, Consultant Rheumatologist and Founder of Aaria Rheumatology, will be answering them on June 17th. 📅 June 17th (Tue) 🕓 4–5 PM (SGT) 📍 @ theAsianparent App 📩 Ask away in the comments below! Don’t wait until symptoms become something more serious, knowledge could be the key to early prevention and peace of mind. Let’s protect our families, one question at a time 💪❤️ #AskTheExpert #AutoimmuneAwareness #theAsianparentSG

🧠 Ask The Expert: Protecting Your Family’s Health – Understanding Autoimmune Risks & Prevention
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Doc, ever since I gave birth, I’ve been sleeping really late almost every night… and honestly, I can feel my body not as fit as before. My hair is falling a lot, I fall sick easily, always feel sleepy, and also have random itches, especially around the tummy area. After reading this, I’m a bit scared… should I go for a check-up? How do I even check for autoimmune issues?

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2w ago

Note from expert: Postpartum changes can be intense—your immune system, hormones, and sleep are all adjusting. What you’re describing could be a mix of common issues like iron deficiency, thyroid problems (like Hashimoto’s), or even early autoimmune activity. A basic screening panel including full blood count, thyroid function, vitamin D, ferritin, and ANA (autoimmune screen) is a good starting point. Don’t panic—but definitely don’t ignore it. Your body is whispering now; listen before it starts shouting.

is it true untreated allergy can lead to autoimmune? i've been told that we have to "train" our allergy, exposing it to the trigger bit by bit so we won't have it again. but i've also heard that actually allergy doesnt work that way

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Note from expert: Allergy and autoimmunity both involve the immune system, but in very different ways—one overreacts to harmless things, the other attacks your own body. Untreated allergies don’t turn into autoimmune diseases, but they can worsen quality of life and increase inflammation. As for ‘training your allergy,’ yes—there is such a thing as desensitization (like allergy shots or sublingual tablets). But it’s a medical process, done in a safe, controlled setting. Trying to expose yourself to triggers on your own can backfire and cause severe reactions. Always talk to an allergist before trying that route!

Doc how do I know if my fatigue is normal ‘parent tired’ or actually something wrong with my immune system? I believe we feel tired all the time... but how to know if its something serious

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Note from expert: Parenting is exhausting—but autoimmune-related fatigue feels different. It’s like running on empty even after sleep, and often comes with other signs: joint pain, brain fog, hair loss, or frequent infections. If your fatigue affects your daily function, or comes with other unexplained symptoms, it’s worth getting a medical check-up. Blood tests can help rule out thyroid issues, vitamin deficiencies, or autoimmune conditions. Listen to your body—normal tiredness recovers with rest; immune-related fatigue doesn’t.

I heard supplements like vitamin D or omega3 can help, and also that exercise might lower the risk, is that true ah? Can these really help with preventing or managing autoimmune problems?

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Note from expert: "Vitamin D helps regulate immune responses, and low levels have been linked to conditions like lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, and MS. Omega-3 fatty acids (like from fish oil) can reduce inflammation and may ease joint stiffness in some autoimmune diseases. Exercise is another powerful tool—it improves circulation, reduces stress hormones, and boosts feel-good endorphins. Regular moderate activity (think walking, swimming, yoga) can lower chronic inflammation and may reduce the risk of developing certain autoimmune conditions. BUT—and here’s the important bit—these are supportive strategies, not stand-alone cures. They work best with your prescribed treatment plan, not instead of it. Think of them like bonus points for your immune system." Regular movement, even gentle forms like walking or stretching, can help regulate immune responses, reduce joint pain, and boost energy. It’s not about intense workouts—it’s about consistency and tuning into your body’s limits. Exer

Hi doc... my girl always say she tired even after sleeping full night leh... could it be something more serious? I thought she was just lazy, but reading all these... I'm scared

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Note from expert: Kids aren’t usually lazy by nature—if they say they’re tired a lot, it could be their body’s way of asking for help. Consider checking for iron deficiency, thyroid function, or infections like EBV. Rarely, fatigue can be an early sign of autoimmune conditions, especially if there are other symptoms like joint pain, weight loss, or swollen glands. It’s best to start with a pediatrician who can run some basic tests. It might turn out to be nothing—but it’s always better to check early than ignore and regret later.

My joints always pain one, especially in the morning. Thought it's just old already but my cousin say could be autoimmune. How to know ah?

2w ago

Note from expert: Pain that’s worse in the morning and improves throughout the day is a classic pattern in inflammatory arthritis. It’s different from osteoarthritis, which tends to worsen with activity. Blood tests like ESR, CRP, rheumatoid factor (RF), and anti-CCP antibodies can help. An early diagnosis makes a huge difference—don’t brush it off as just aging. Even young people can get autoimmune arthritis!

Doc is it true... I heard stress is really a big trigger for autoimmune? Then how to manage stress when parenting already so stressful?

2w ago

Note from expert: Chronic stress affects your immune system—it increases inflammation and may trigger or worsen autoimmune flares. While we can’t avoid stress (especially as parents!), we can build in buffers: sleep, mindfulness, regular exercise, asking for help, and taking even short breaks for yourself. Stress doesn’t cause autoimmune disease directly, but it’s like gasoline on a fire if one is already brewing. So managing stress isn’t selfish—it’s survival.

My son always get random rashes, come and go. PD say allergy, but sometimes no trigger leh. Autoimmune can look like that or not?

2w ago

Note from expert: To know whether a rash is from allergy, infection, or something autoimmune, we need to consider how the rash looks, how long it lasts, and if it comes with other symptoms—like fever, fatigue, joint pain, or swollen glands. Autoimmune rashes often have specific patterns and may not itch. If the rashes are frequent, unpredictable, or come with systemic signs, it's worth seeing a doctor for more tests. A basic workup might include allergy tests, full blood count, and sometimes an ANA test to screen for autoimmune issues. You're not overthinking it—it’s smart to follow up if things don’t add up.

can woman with autoimmune condition get pregnant doc?? will it affect the mother's health? and more, will it affect the baby?

2w ago

Note from expert: Autoimmune diseases don’t automatically prevent pregnancy. The key is to achieve good disease control before conception. Some medications may need to be stopped or switched before trying for a baby. And while there are some risks to both mom and baby—like preterm birth or neonatal lupus—these can often be mitigated with close monitoring by a rheumatologist and obstetrician. With the right care, most pregnancies proceed smoothly and babies are born healthy. So yes, it’s absolutely possible—just don’t DIY it!

My skin sometimes breakout with red patches, itchy but not like eczema. Autoimmune can affect skin like that???

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Note from expert: Autoimmune skin rashes can show up in many forms—some may mimic eczema or allergies but behave differently. Lupus, dermatomyositis, or vasculitis can present with redness, rashes, or sensitivity to sunlight. If the rash appears with fatigue, joint pain, or lasts longer than usual, it’s worth seeing a dermatologist or rheumatologist. They may suggest a biopsy or blood tests like ANA. Just because it’s not eczema doesn’t mean it’s autoimmune—but recurring unexplained rashes deserve a closer look.