Missing my single lifestyle
#firsttimemom #missingsinglelife Hey mummies anyone feel like me? I am first time mom, but some how I miss my single lifestyle. I see others enjoying life keep go travelling, go party etc meanwhile I stay at home take care of my baby. Have u ever feel the same like me?
I have a young baby and definitely feel like that sometimes. I miss travelling especially and always feel like I'm missing out when I hear people going travelling. But when I look at my baby growing day by day, I feel like it's worth it and remind myself that this is just a phase. It is still important to plan to have some me time, maybe can get someone to look after baby while you take some time for yourself to meet with friends or go shopping (whatever activity that makes you happy).
Read moreEnjoy and appreciate single life when single and enjoy and appreciate family life when have family. I hardly go out on weekends too as after I settle my LO and cook I am too tired to do anything else. The only time I have my ME time usually is when I go to office and when I take leave (LO in sch) This phase will pass by quickly and soon they will be going out with their own friends.
Read moreAsk ur hb to take care or family members. I see my frens letting their helper or in laws or parents take care while they ownself travel. I cant make myself do it. We travel together wif our ger. But I am lucky enough to have me time coz my hb can handle my ger alone
I miss the travelling too but I have decided that it may change the places I go to and the frequency of travel, but I will start to plan at least one trip per year even with my toddlers or baby. Just need to be adaptable and more flexible.
i personally never had a active lifestyle... tho i initially did not want kids, i m not 1 2 look back... let's move on 🙏💕
never 🤣 I love my current lifestyle with 👦👧