Husband wants baby no2

My first born is only 5mo, and my hubby is requesting for baby no 2, I spoke to him but he don’t feel happy, saying we both should get another baby ASAP. I felt very pressure and unhappy, everytime he wants to have sex, I felt super irritated, I don’t know why. The feeling is horrible😭😭😭😭 can mummies out there share some thoughts with me, TIA #1stimemom #advicepls

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It's your body so you got the say. If you're not ready so be it but better use a protection or take some family planning pills, etc. Our body needs a lot of rest and actually takes long to recover. You may be fine outside but not the inside and you're only 5 mths pp. Give your body a rest first. It's already exhausting after giving birth + the lack of sleep. Taking care of a child is not only a mum's job but the father too. Poor baby is only 5 mths old, still clingy and daddy already wants a sibling for him. But then I knew of many who have a very near age gap for their children. Must be exhausting! My husband's aunt gave birth to 2 babies in a year! My children are 2, 3 and 10 years apart 😁

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