What do you and your spouse argue about the most?

The wife behaves like a perfectionist, the husband cannot underestimate her way of doing things in her order, to comments on the wife bad behaviours and the husband must swallow all sorts of unnecessary remarks from the wife be it passing sarcasm remarks for no reason, do not wish to take or consider the husband opinion on the daily events. The husband in this case had tried to work out why the wife hates to listen to the husband opinion and had always given remarks as absurd and not practical before deciding amicably. In this case, the husband had alleviated the wife stress and helping in washing, hanging and ironing clothes, tidy up the bed, going to the market and did not make noise even the wife doesn't care about the husband breakfast, lunch or dinner. Lately, the wife had told the husband to find a suitable partner as the wife is no longer able to interact in a good social married life. Nonetheless, the husband is thinking of the two children who have grown up and not to let the matters stress the children's. The daily arguments are always behind the scene of the children to respect their feeling of abandonment.

Btwn 2019-2021, when his late mother stayed with us, we argued every single day. Most of our arguments resulted from late mil mean words and comments about me behind my back (but caught on my home cctv). Some occasions I caught her red handed talking bad about me and when I told my hb about it, and he talked to her about it, she deny flatly or say I misheard or I'm lying, etc... And he will defend his mom (of cos), but thank God for cctv cos I was able to show him proofs. Then, when she got cornered and no choice must admit, she ended up becoming more buay song with me. It showed on her face so much that she wasn't happy with me and began to talk s*** about me to her other close relatives, her other son, and DIL. It bothered me of cos cos it was straining my rs with my hb. After she passed away last year, my rs with my hb got better for some reason. I can feel his change as he tries to build a better rs with me.

hahah we rarely argue cause he chooses to let me go on & on while he keeps quiet. One way traffic 🤣

My husband argues...I just let him talk...and talk...and talk...when he is tired he will shut up

Me especially and my spouse argue about whether do he look at other girls or not

His over engross on devices and often that leads to his hot tempered attitude

About his habit of looking at the phone and watching videos all day 🙄

It’s now getting better though with clear roles and responsibilities

I think for us it is opinions of movies, politics and people hehe

Doesn't like my hobby even if I'm not spending much time on it.