Anywhere else can i rant anonymously other than here? I really had enough of husband. Everything also say i don hav the right/in the position to say him. Eg: he has an appointment on Sat 3pm, on Fri i reminded him, on sat morning also reminded him, at 230pm, reminded him. At 310pm, he was still at home not prepared at all. Thereafter, he wanted to go bathe and do styling. I told him, “you are already late for your appointment” He was so agitated and he said he felt insulted, he told me i hav no rights and not in any position to say him unless i have NEVER been late for anything in my life before, else i gotta keep my mouth shut. Next, he brought Lo to supermarket to buy toys that comes with coloured sweets, he “compete” with Lo, each person ate 1 sweet at a time to finish it. ??‍♀️ my Lo is still having cough yet husband still do tt. I didnt utter a word, but deep down i am freaking boiling. Anyway we are staying together with my parents under one roof, he said all these right in front of parents and wasnt his first time. He ever said “what do you think you are? Are you of any use? Do you find yourself useless? Look at yourself before you open your mouth to say anything” “if not becox of children, i wouldnt even bother about you at all, don you even think tt you are married, so what.” I am a SAHM now, graduate, used to be working as account manager(sales). Sometimes make me wonder why did i even choose him as husband?!

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I've heard quite a few of such cases from my SAHM friends. In most cases, it was often because the husband felt that the wife was staying at home, doing nothing much (my foot!) and spending money. Have you talk to your husband whether the relationship strain was due to financial issues? If yes, just go back to work and put your child at infant or child care. You're a graduate. You used to be a Sales Manager. You should have a good earning power. He has no right to degrade you to the kind of level that he did.

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Is this normal behaviour or something new? Is he going through stress at work? Have you spoken to him?

Your hubby sounds like a complete mean Dick! This sucks. How are you feeling?