hi, I'm a first time mom as well. if you are still confused kung anong essential na need mong unahin i can give u a list. Hope this will help. 1. New born clothes 2. Swaddle 3. Lampin 4. Diaper for newborn 5. Mansanilya 6. Baby oil 7. Alcohol 8. Baby liquid soap (Lactacyd) but it depends on you what liquid soap you'll going to use for your baby. 9. Cotton Balls 10. Unscented Wipes 11. Mittens & Socks 12. Thermometer __ that's the only list that i think essential but u can still add padin po.