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Feeling Indifferent

I'm trying to understand myself better and I hope that there are mothers who can guide me through this plight. Eversince I gave birth to my second child, I experienced PP rage and an absolute disconnect towards my firstborn. It seems like an out of body experience. Each time I scold her or hurt her, It's as if I cannot control myself. I just lash out but then I will come to my senses and apologise to her. I don't think I'm tired because my second has been quite a breeze since 2 months.. often I have to wake her up for feedings or else she just sucks her thumb and MYOB. Now that my secondborn is 4 months the my PP rage seems to have died down BUT yet I still feel the disconnect towards my firstborn. I don't feel genuine it feels so awful that the feeling I once doted her and could cuddle her with love, I don't feel that anymore. It sucks. What should I do?

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wishing u & both ur LOs all the best

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I’m pissed and annoyed at OBGYN comments today. Immediately she brought up induction and over exaggerated (IMO) baby to be 4kg by full term? I’ve already done induction for first child because I didn’t know much and it was a failure at KKH because they didn’t let me move or stretch to help with the mild contractions. My contractions went away and I lied down for almost 8 hours???? Obviously no progress lah even after breaking my water bag manually. That’s KKH for you. Tie you down like prisoner. Want to go toilet also don’t allow. So now I’m trying NUH for VBAC and I hear the word induction again. Wah, I’m fuming and disappointed! My husband and I are both tall. My first baby is 3.6kg at 39 weeks.

yes sgh is the same. i had induction and they dont allow me to move around at all. i was literally on the bed throughout the contractions and have to pee on the bed! it was horrible and took so damn long to dilate...

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Breastfeeding While Pregnant

A little stressed out and in a dilemma. Is it true that BF while pregnant can cause a miscarriage? My first LO just turned 1 and I’m expecting my second. I’m only in my first tri. Awfully sleepy. I decided to start formula because my nips feels tender and sore but LO is having a hard time transitioning. She’s been fully breastfed up till a few days ago. How do I go about this journey? It hurts to see her cry for comfort especially during her night wakes and morning naps. She refused the bottle even on other feeding times… help..

best to ask your gynae for advice. there are mummies that breastfeed during pregnancy too so it’s hard for us to advise online. LO will have to get used to bottle eventually if it’s unsafe. get someone else other than you to feed

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