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Don’t like my MIL

Is it normal to resent my MIL? I gave birth to my LO this year and things went downhill ever since then. At first our rs, pre baby was fine. She literally minded her own business. It took me a while to have a baby because my husband and I planned for it. My MIL started saying things that I could be the problem we are still childless, I should go do this and that. It made me cry but I just passed it off as, she meant well. Which I do believe she did. Who doesn’t want a grandchild. Bla bla bla. I got pregnant. And honestly, she doesn’t give a damn about me LOL. I only had my family and husband. Anyway, when I gave birth. My entire new mother experience was ripped away from me because she turned up at the hospital almost immediately after I gave birth with many other people. She was selfish, very selfish. She held onto the baby, and made sure her people all touched the baby. She also forced people to carry my baby and ask them to kiss the baby. Mind you, she came so early, I didn’t even had the chance to carry my baby till night time when everyone left. Anyway, during postpartum, she did so many things that hurt my feelings and I can’t look past it. She thinks she is the best mother better than anyone else and best part, she didn’t even take care of her children when they were young LOL. Now, whenever we don’t visit her, she throw sarcastic remarks. Actually wanted to visit her more often but guess what, whatever I do is wrong in her eyes. She question my every action. Why this why that. Im open to hearing opinions and learning but everything I do is wrong. I dread being there. But I know my husband is sad about it. My MIL also say shit things to my mother. One if it is acting like my mother doesn’t know how to take care of me and my child. Now I try to like just be there when I have to and have small talks. I hate being there. I hate being her DIL. I don’t like her at all. She makes me feel depressed 😔

Sorry but where is your husband? 😒 he shouldn’t let you go through these on your own. Be it pre or post pregnancy. Is he on your side or?

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Haven’t had sex since pregnant

I’m 37 week closed to due. My husband and I have not had sex since the beginning of pregnancy. He said that he is worried about the baby but I feel like it’s more than that. Prior to pregnancy, he was already having troubles staying erected and seemed uninterested in having sex. I feel so insecure whenever it happens. He said before that he used to be able to have sex everyday or every other day when he was with his ex wife but ever since we have gotten tgt, our sex life just keeps getting worse and worse. We had conversations and I let him know how it made me feel & he tried his best to reassure me but no matter how many times we spoke about it, our sex life just doesnt get better. It’s so annoying :(((

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[Bundle of 2] Quick Touch 1 Minute Hair Color, Grey Hair Coverage - 10 Natural Black

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Sunscreen for babies and toddlers.

Hello parents! What’s your recommended sunscreen for baby & toddler?

Cetaphil sun kids. can be used on face.

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Ectopic Pregnancy

Hi ladies, for those who has encountered ectopic pregnancy, at which week did you guys found out and by which week is it too late for the jab and have to go through surgery? Was there any tell tale sign that on your pregnancy test kit that its an ectopic pregnancy? Faint pregnancy line etc?

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i just read up on this in the app... hope all is well for u 🙏💕

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Unhappy with my husband

Currently doing my confinement.. we have confinement nanny and really help eases a lot of work but I’m constantly unhappy seeing my husband staying up late to watch tv. Whereas I have to wake up every three hours to pump milk. Is there anything wrong of me feeling that way? I just feel So sian that he gets to sleep and he’s not sleeping whereas me having disturbed sleep every night

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i got my hb to feed & change as well

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Looking for people who is keen to start their own online store for baby toy

Hello. As per stated in caption. Any mommy who's keen can pm me. I don't mind selling the stocks to you at a lower price as I don't wish to sell anymore and I need space. Only 4 cartons available and each carton contain 36pcs.

Looking for people who is keen to start their own online store for baby toy

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Toys to bring out

Any suggestion on what toys to bring out for babies (10mth onwards), be it to play outside at restaurants or in car? Thanks!

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push and pull toys

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