I am feeling so down for the past few days. I haven't been spending much time with my husband due to his work commitment/schedule. I stay home almost everyday ever since I entered the third trimester. I am now 38+1 and i started to feel lonely. I do feel like having sex on days where my husband is at home. Normally i will spray some body spray or light perfume every time after shower or even to sleep, its a habit for me to always smell good even when i'm not going anywhere. This time round, i put the extra effort to spray some sexy perfume instead to attract my husband's attention and some nice and cute sleepwear but he seems to be not interested? I have done this 3 days in a row but he ended up sleeping right away the moment we go to bed. (Yes he did spend time with me during the day but only the sex part is lacking now). I even tried hinting at him about this, he reassured me once but nothing has changed. I started to feel insecure with myself. Maybe i don't look good anymore... #justranting #insecure
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Feeling horrible about confinement and all the rules. Feeling lonely to go through this drill everyday with nanny and feeling like I lost a part of my personal life. Baby is cute and I love baby. But I just can’t help feeling horrible about the confinement and being restricted about bath and washing hair. Feeling hot, tired and frustrated. Can anyone feel me ? #advicepls #firsttimemom
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12 days old NB, crying and not getting enough sleep even though he’s tired
#pleasehelp #advicepls #firstbaby #firstTime_mom Hi Mommies, My 12 days old keeps crying after the nanny or I puts him down for his naps after feeding and burping. He sleeps for maybe 5-10 mins then wakes up crying repeatedly, his face is red and he arches his back a lot like he can’t get comfortable. This has been happening for the past 4 days. I’m not sure what to do. Is it colic? Please help! 🥲
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Hi mummies, would like to seek your views. Is it common habit for confinement nannies not to wash their hands after changing baby's diapers and feed them milk immediately? I find it very unhygienic but they are professionals and feel bad asking her to at least sanitize her hands first. #first#firsttimemom
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