Birthclub: April 2024

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BRINGING BABY OVERSEAS

HI Any idea how you mummies prepare milk for baby while overseas? I'm so stressed about it hahaha Thanks

It depends how long are you going! Are you giving formula milk or breast milk? For formula milk, you can simply bring the whole tin if you’re going for a longer period. Otherwise, you can pre-pack into disposable milk powder storage bags. Link: https://sg.shp.ee/EjTyP5y

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My Baby Always Want to Carry

My baby is almost 8 months old. He doesn’t like to sit for more than 15 mins and always wants to carry. If we don’t carry him, he will protest and cry. How can I train him to be independent to play on his own or sit on the high chair during meal time? #ParentingEssentials

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7mo LO don't want to drink milk

My 7mth LO don't really want to drink milk. Have even changed to new formula milk & sometimes it's still the same. Pls advice.

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did let my LOs try a variety of FM... more than 5

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2nd baby and mom's guilt

Feeling guilty as we haven't really started feeding solids to my 8 months old baby. He ate one or twice then stopped and feed occasionally. When he is fed puree, he kinda don't know how to swallow or just spit out.. the reason the delay was that he was having cough then later diarrhea and now recovered. But lately he vomits one or 2 times a day. We don't know what is happening, going to the doctors. If compared to no.1, I'm afraid he is delayed in his milestones.. but also know that boys might develop later? Idk, feels v guilty

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take the milestones as a guide... my LOs r v different too 🙏💕

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Feeling overwhelmed?

Any ftm feeling overwhelmed as a sahm? I am feeling mentally and physically exhausted, particularly my LO, who was unwell and being hospitalised for a few days. Yet the other half and my only sister made me feel that I shouldn't feel tired because I am not a full-time working mother. Turned to her for ranting but got suan. My sis is a mom of 2 and has been working, so to her, what I am doing now is nothing. I doubt I could hold on to my emotions soon. And I felt so guilty for scolding my LO....

It’s normal to feel overwhelmed as a SAHM, especially with no helper or in laws to help. Our job don’t have off days, don’t have proper lunch breaks, don’t have proper toilet breaks, especially if baby is those that cannot stand seeing you taking a break (like mine). Household chores falls on us, baby needs us 24/7. People always think that we have nothing to do since baby sleeps all day. Baby sleep, we need to do housework, need to pump, when finally done, baby wakes up. When you finally get to eat a proper dinner, they say you enjoy life. No one sees all these, all they see is “she stay home shake leg, wait husband feed.” And husband’s thinking is “stay at home, of course household chores and baby is your job because I’m feeding you.” Because we’re with baby 24/7, we experience all their meltdowns. People only play with baby for a short period of time so they think baby is an angel, easy to take care. When baby sick, who stay up late and keep waking up to take care? Naturally all thrown to the one “staying at home”. Plan a trip with your friend/solo, like a 3D2N, inform your husband the dates, ask him to arrange his leave and leave, let them experience what you’re going thru everyday to see if it’s really nothing to do. I think by day 2, your mil will be at your place already. For your sister, no need to bother about her. So only working then got the rights to feel tired? Try asking her work 365 days, 24/7 at office then. Unless you’ve been thru the same situation, you have no rights to judge or comment.

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Tula front facing

May I know when can LO front-facing when using tula? She doesn't like rear facing with infant insert...

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ought to have strong head and neck control, and tall enough to have face fully clear the top of the body panel while being seated in the carrier

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My baby is almost 8 months old. He’s teething this month and had mild flu. He’s refusing milk (formula bottle) during every feed. I’m stressed as he’s losing weight and always cranky. Any advice how to encourage him to drink?

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it's tough when they r both teething & ill... perhaps he can try other food options since he's past 6mo... hope this phase passes real soon

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High Risk for Trisomy 21, 18 and 13

I am a mum-to-be at age 45 Have 3 healthy kids, with my 3rd child born 10 years ago Had a natural miscarriage last September Done some research on down syndrome and I know that it will not be easy But I have decided to keep this precious baby Wanna see if any mummies can share experience with me and encouragement to keep me going

Hi Laura really thankful to see your reply yes not an easy decision but I will strive to fo my best for this special child let me know where can I join tgese support groups to learn more appreciate that and thank you

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Stop pumping bm

Any mummies chose to stop bm when LO turns 7mths? Do you feel guilty? My bm supply is getting lower n lower. I am thinking of stopping it... yet people are saying I'm selfish to think for myself

I’ve pumped for 18m (to slim down and maintain my weight), but still I get comments saying that bm is useless after 4m and baby should eat solids instead. Unless they are the ones producing the milk, waking up at odd timings to pump on your behalf (not donor milk), who are they to comment right? Be harsh if you need to, ask them to mind their own business. Regardless whether you pump or don’t pump, there will always be naysayers. Decide what is best for your own sanity and wellbeing. This is your body, your choice, nobody has the rights to put you down. Bm or formula, end of the day, everybody eats solids and fed is best.

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Signs of teething?

Hi mummies Is this signs of teething? Saw some whitish on the below gum...

Signs of teething?

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