Postponing visitors visit.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with listening to your gut and your needs. Your mental health and well being are essential, especially when taking care of your baby. Becoming a mum is no mean feat, especially during the first few weeks postpartum - adjusting to new schedules and this new little person in the house takes effort and space. I suggest explaining (just once) what this space means to you and talk things out with your spouse. Let him know you need his support through this. I always believe in teamwork when it comes to things like this. Then explain to your family what you need from them. Let them know that while you understand their excitement, you seek their understanding and empathy. And it’s not that you DONT WANT them to meet baby, you just need a few weeks of space. You could also send them the occasional pictures just to pacify them when you’re keeping the visits at Bay.