Mentally and emotionally unbalanced

Recently I'm been feeling mentally and emotionally unbalanced with my in-laws. Been living tgt since married and I'm pregnant w their first grandchild and they still decided to move out to their new house leaving me behind when I need them the most. Although as mentioned tat will come back frequently to help but I just keep feeling tat it's so not the right time. Now I keep telling myself tat just let them be and I'll be fine but on the other hand I keep thinking and worrying. 😔 I know I will always have the support from my mom but as her health is not tat good I oso don't want to. 😔 I just keep thinking about y can't the in-law support more when it's their first grandchild (their own blood grandchild). I'm so mentally and emotionally affected. 😭 #pleasehelp #firsttimemom #firstbaby #firstmom

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😅 completely opposite from my situation! I've been living with my in-laws since I got married. and I cant stand them 🤣 I wished I had my own space without them nagging at me all the time. but trust me, your in-laws and my in-laws all have the same loving intention. Yours prehaps moved out to give you space to build your own little family, and prehaps knowing that when the child comes, conflict might arise, so giving you the space. I'm sure if they say they will be back often, it means they will be there for you anytime you need them, especially on those days your husband travels for work. believe that our parents, in-laws and family members all mean well even though sometimes it doesnt align with our wants/needs. hope it works out for you mummy! 💛💛💛

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