Mentally and emotionally unbalanced

Recently I'm been feeling mentally and emotionally unbalanced with my in-laws. Been living tgt since married and I'm pregnant w their first grandchild and they still decided to move out to their new house leaving me behind when I need them the most. Although as mentioned tat will come back frequently to help but I just keep feeling tat it's so not the right time. Now I keep telling myself tat just let them be and I'll be fine but on the other hand I keep thinking and worrying. 😔 I know I will always have the support from my mom but as her health is not tat good I oso don't want to. 😔 I just keep thinking about y can't the in-law support more when it's their first grandchild (their own blood grandchild). I'm so mentally and emotionally affected. 😭 #pleasehelp #firsttimemom #firstbaby #firstmom

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I hear you. Maybe getting a helper will help ease your worries? That’s if you’re worrying about being alone. Speak to you husband about it. Maybe have your siblings or friends over to keep you company for the time being.

2y ago

ya... planning to layout everything in detail to my husband. although he mentioned we can make it without them but on the other hand I still feel so unbalanced (and at times my husband has to travel for work). 😔 I have been telling myself about when they moved out I'll be able to save more money and oso to do wat I like for my house. but will all the unconfirmed situation I can't plan for new planning for my house. 😔 I'm the kind of person who likes to plan in advance but now I can't do anything. feels so frustrating.