Need some encouragement
Mummies, I'm a full time mum of 2 kids. Toddler and infant. I have not been working for 3 years since I was pregnant. My family want me to go back to working field next year to see the society and learn. 他们不想我远离社会太久,然后老的时候,回头看日子就这样过罢了。他们希望我去看看这个社会,去体验人生。 My first born went to school at 18 months old. Second born will be going to school at 3 months old if i go to work. Rationally it is the best choice for me to go work. It won't be so tough on my spouse as he is the only one working now. He has to earn enough for his parents and our family of 4. There are loans and bills to pay. If I go to work, not only I can help out financially, I can even buy things that I like and for the kids. 可是我真的舍不得我的孩子。Is like kids grow up way too fast. I don't want to look back and regret time I missed spending with them. Hard to find job that I can spend time with them. I tried to apply 50 resume, but no one wants to hire me. Reason being, I do not want an OT job or 5.5 days job. Not everyone has the privilege to see their kids grow up like I do. The more I should be grateful for the years I spend as a full time mother and go back to work. But I'm really not ready. Not ready for work life and also...infant going to school at such a young age. There's no best of both worlds. Being able to earn while spending time with kids. Not much working experience... Hard to find wfh job... Hope to get some encouragement for going back to society...
Working Mum of a Preemie. Exclusive Pumper.