8 months pregnant

Hi moms, I’m 8 months pregnant and tbh I’ve never been sexually active with my husband. The last we’ve probably made out or was sexually active was probably in September. Recently, I found my an entire folder of a naked girl- or for the lack of a better word, porn of a particular girl in my husband’s laptop. I’m not sure if he’s cheating with me but the date of the video goes back all the way to 2019. I’m assuming he has received it as a whole stash. I’m appalled because it’s a local girl and I have no idea who she is. I’m upset because I think it’s my fault for not being a good wife. Every man has his needs but being pregnant and working has made me very tired. My husband and I don’t sleep on the same bed since I got pregnant because of his snorings. I’m just really upset and i don’t know if I should confront or keep it to myself or idk. Guess it’s my fault for not being a good wife. #advicepls #bantusharing #firstbaby #pregnancy

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Hi mummy. Sorry to hear that you’re going thru such things. The last time me and my husband made out was around June/July as well. We didn’t do it anymore cause I just wasn’t feeling it and my husband was afraid to ask. I personally think you should speak to your husband about this rather than guess. Afterall a healthy relationship requires communications. If he bought the videos and pictures online to relieve himself, I personally find that I can still accept that since everyone has needs. Also, bb can feel your emotions as well so try to stay positive mummy! :( Don’t blame yourself! We don’t get pregnant by ourselves, it takes two hands to clap. Stay strong 🤍

I'm someone who cannot stand not clearing the air so I definitely will confront my hubs if he ever does that. its always for the better when the air is cleared so both know what to do and change moving forward. bottling it up is really a stressful thing to do and too much stress is no good for you and your baby too. hope you can talk to your hubs nicely and comes to a mutual understanding or agreement. take care.

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