Friendship

Hi mommies. Just curious, do your close friends check on you after giving birth? If yes, how often? I’m asking because my close friends of 10-11 years don’t bother checking on me during my pregnancy and after giving birth (me and baby). To be honest, a part of me feel like giving up this friendship. #firsttimemom

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Once every few months cause we are all busy and live quite far away. I personally am okay with my friend (for 13 years now) checking in on me once every few months or even once every year. I can’t guarantee I can consistently check on my friend’s life so I don’t expect much if I can’t do it myself (exhausted since I’m taking care of bb alone). The bond is still there, we still go crazy during all our meetups just like Sec sch days despite not checking in. But if you’re bothered, how about you make the first step, check in on them first?

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