M i not right to celebrate my lo 1st bday since i did it on her 1st mth? My f mil says no pt doing since bby no memory plus aldy did her 1st mth liao.. Den my hub follow n agreed.. This is an ivf baby.. My precious lil baby.. I feel even not ivf dont our babies the most impt ones to us? m not gng to do it big coz i dun hv much money.. Just buffet n cake.. I dun uds y this f mil so kns!! My mummy say we shall just carry n do it n ignore the mil n hubby.. They dun1 is their problem, we as dil just inform.. That day come jiu come, no come jiu sua.. Wad u all think?

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I will do what I want for my baby. It is your baby and you are the mom. You can be polite and listen to them but you can still insist you want to do it. There is nothing wrong with celebrating 1st Year birthday. They are not the mother of course they don't understand our pains to raise the baby for one year and to see the baby grow up so well for a year that we wanna celebrate it.

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