Pacifier Advise

LO 1 month plus, quite a hectic mostly at night cause waking up frequently and its not the feeding time. and my family sometime confused that its feeding time just because of the cries... then im always try to not to give my LO pacifier if possible..but it was so stressful and all the elders keep recommend me to give pacifier..so end up the pacifier win... now i have questions - i sense my LO will be addicted to it so how can i lessen the addiction? - do i give her suck the entire night or should i removr when shes deep sleep? - any great tips will be great! #advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby #pleasehelp