Manage work life balance between family and work

When I had my first pregnancy I work till night that same goes with my husband because I'm a hotelier while he does delivery. So our off days are meant to visit in laws or family time. After 3 years I convert to part time to fit my first child school schedule and spend time with her while I still have a helping hand which is my parents. Weekends are solely for parents in law. If we have plans, we will not sleepover at in law. Just this year I started to work fulltime under contract then I had to resign due to medical reason and second pregnancy. We still fix our time as a family the same as first pregnancy. Our weekends are solely for us/friends/in laws. We, both will ensure we have enough time and it is spend wisely with our children.