Worst day of my life in 2021

I was beaming with joy when I realised I was expecting. I was spotting brownish stains the day before and was spotting red yesterday night . Managed to went to the gynae that I have changed to from previous gynae. Got a slot today and went in on a last min slot in due to my emergency. Doc told me the fetus is not developing well due to chromosomes. Had to received the news to stop the pregnancy as I'm abt week 7 to 8 now. It is one of the biggest loss this year. I heard and tears just uncontrollable rolling down my cheeks. The rest of moms to be, hope everyone will have a safe and smooth delivery! #biggest loss

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I had missed miscarriage and only found it out at week 8. It was truly heartbreaking when the gynae told me that they no longer can detect my fetus’ heartbeat was told to go for abortion. I cried to sleep for the next two months. Sometimes unfortunate things do happen even to a good samaritan. Do allow yourself to grieve and you will be okay eventually. Do not rush into next pregnancy until you are emotionally and physically ready. 5 months after my loss and I got blessed with a healthy pregnancy. My baby girl is now 2 months old. Do not lose hope. You will be okay! ♥️

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Hug hug.. I had miscarriage for my first pregnancy somewhere during week 6 to 8.. I cried a lot too.. Told myself that probably baby is not ready yet to come to this world. A few months later when I am ready emotionally, I got pregnant again.. My baby is delivered smoothly and he is near to 2 weeks old now.. Do not lose hope.. For now, rest well first.. Baby will come to you again soon 🤗

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3y ago

Hope that you are better now.. Best of luck to you 😊

Hugs to you mummy, have plenty of rest and take good care of your health. Hoping that you will have another baby coming your way in 2022. I too had a miscarriage before, after afew months and I had my girl whom is turning 10 years old next year. Never give up hope nor blame yourself for any of it. Take great care and speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

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Sorry for your loss. I had the same experience in 2019 (also miscarriage due to chromosomes issues). I was around 6 to 7 weeks then. 😢 Do take gd care of yourself and u'll be able to have a healthy pregnancy again. This is what happened to me, and my girl is now 1year old. Jiayou!!

I also face a MC due to chromosomes issue around cny 21 time... Do a small confinement during that time to build up my body. 2 months later I am preg again and now going to deliver my bb gal soon. So don't give up hope. Most important must rest more and well and try again.

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Don’t be sad dear..it’s destiny ..even I had the same situation and have to terminate my pregnancy on Sep 2020…we again tried for baby after 3-4 months and blessed with baby boy on oct 2021…believe in god and yourself everything will be good

I’m incredibly sorry for your loss 🥺 Miscarriage is the most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever been through. Take as much time as you need to heal and I hope you are surrounded by much love 💕. My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏🏻

Hugs. It’s ok to let yourself feel down for a while. Hope you will have a healthy pregnancy 2022 if you’re trying again. Most people go on to have successful pregnancies so long keep trying. ❤️

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big hugs!!! please order confinement food for at least 1 week, rest and recuperate your body! i had 2 miscarriages in 2019 but my girl is already 14 months old now. Stay positive sister!

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sorry for your loss. I MC my twins at 20 weeks due to cervic incompetent 4 years ago. I took very long time to get over it. Now God blessed me again and I'm at 11+ weeks now. ❤ Jiayou~~~~

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3y ago

thank you Yvonne, all my wishes for you in your delivery.jiayou too ❤️ ❤️ ❤️