Protected sex using condom?

I know condom is not 100% safe in avoiding getting pregnant again but does anyone uses condom and manage to not get pregnant? I am a month plus post csect and really really scared of doing sex due to the chance of getting pregnant again. I personally have never used condom before, is the feel still the same when doing the deed and which type is the most natural?

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Csect mom here too. Didn't use any other birth control aft my first, just condom and keeping track of my menses and ovulation schedule. Aft my first csect, we didn't do the deed for abt 4-5 months I think. I was too stressed out abt breastfeeding anw so no mood. Talk to ur hubby if u don't feel comfortable yet to do it. We just use a normal condom, no scent or some weird texture (tried the dotted textural one tt's supposed to increase sensitivity and pleasure but i hated the feeling and kinda hurt for me). Condoms are fefinitely not as pleasurable but u'll get used to it. Engage in foreplay more before putting on. Use lubricant too. Aft 1 year, we started to ditch the condom at times when it's during my safe days. but my hubby and I had the consensus tt if I were to become pregnant, we will still carry on with the pregnancy. For us we managed to be baby free for abt 2 years before I conceived but unfortunately had 2 miscarriages. But now in the final tri of my pregnancy, almost 3 years apart from my firstborn.

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personally i feel it worked for me 100% even on ovulating days... any condom will say they work 99.9%, only if you use it safely. 1) dont use expired condoms. 2) dont store condoms in wallet lol 3) buy the right size condoms. I used condom for 3 years pre-pregnancy, not once got pregnant until I tried to conceive and stopped using (which i immediately got pregnant lol). must get the right size, too tight condom will break, too loose will leak out the cum. definitely dont feel the same.... but good thing is because not as "sensitive" for husband, husband can last longer before cumming 😆 make sure to get lubricant. I recommend the KY lube from Durex. as for condoms, I use only durex because my skin is sensitive to all the other brands, will give me pain and burning from the condoms. I like the invisible ultra thin one from durex, it is in a silver packaging.

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Hi, C sect mom here. Yes, very different feel when using condom. Not as satisfying so your husband need to up his game other than using his third leg. 🫣. Top tip is to go slow because your scar is still considered healing sometimes holding the hip area can be painful. Also, get the right size of condom ok! So that it doesn’t break off. Also, don’t go second round without changing to a new one. If you’re not ready just tell your hub! Or if he’s very hungry, maybe you learn some “new ways” of satisfying him (not talking abt the back door ofcourse). I’m sure he’ll appreciate it. ;)

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Your question is not even valid, who can say that condom works 100% for her, even on the “safe days”, the right sizing and having the common knowledge in how to correctly use one, the surprise can still happen 🤣 It’s like gambling. And it’s going to feel different with the extra “skin” on, you may want to have some lubricant on standby

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