Feeling apart

My hub have not been doing his part as a father or husband...all he do is usong his phone all day...will only move when told a number of times. Midnight when the LO (2yrs old) is crying...he just continue his sleep even he heard it. There is no moral support. When his mom ill speak of me, he only ask her to keep quiet...no show of siding me or say something to stop her from talking it again. Things just keep repeating. Is tiring, ever did talk to him, but sometime he control too much, self center.#sharing