Care after bb is born

Hello everyone. I have a situation here with regards to who to help take care of my bb after she's born. 1. In law is not willing to take care of bb despite wfh 2. My parents are indecisive also, but they're self-employed 3. Helpers are expensive (or is anyone able to advise the helper's upfront payment and mthly salary?) 4. Nannies are now priced avgly $800 a month too, so it's pricey 5. Infant cares (anyone knows the fees in local preschs?) Thanks!

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I was in the same situation, no inlaws, my parents refused so i chose to be a stay at home mum till my daughter is pre nursery. I dont trust helper to be alone with child even with cameras around and infant care is also a big no for me, cause i hv friends working in this industry n i hv heard too many things that happens behind close doors. Dont expect teachers to care for ur child 1 to 1 cause each hv 4 or 5 to care for. This was the biggest reason i did not place my girl in infant care. At the end of the day its my child n her safety n wellbeing is what that matters the most

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