How to deal with the toxic father?

The baby daddy knows about the condition of my baby. But he doesn't care at all. My baby has CHD-Pulmonary Artesia/Severe Pulmonary Stenosis with VSD. I am now 30 weeks pregnant and still struggling about my anxiety and depression. I am very hurtful on what he shows to his son. All I want is to see that he cares and loves the child that come to his own flesh and blood. Now, I deactivated all my social media account. We are in different country now as I went back to my home country. He really likes me to go back as soon as possible that's why I resigned on my job. Now, I am jobless. I also worried because I know I am not fully ready to the financials especially about my baby's surgery. To the parents out there, what can you suggest to me on what should I do? I have open ears to your comments and suggestions. #pleasehelp #1stimemom #advicepls #chdwarrior

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Your anxiety and depression are strongholds/ bondage. Ask God His grace and mercy by the power of the Holy Spirit for you to overcome these demonic oppressions in the powerful name of Jesus. First, you need to repent for all of your sins and ask for His forgiveness(forgive others first those who have wronged and hurt you deeply before the Father can forgive you) and ask Him to cleanse you from all unrighteousness. He is faithful and just to forgive all of your sins. Secondly, think of every open doors that led the spirits to enter your body, soul and spirit (example: witchcraft- spirit of the glass, palm reading, horoscope, horror movies, objects with demonic symbols, pokemon toys, music when backmasked worships satan, soul ties, etc.). Renounce every evil spirit (example: spirit of anger; spirit of bitterness; spirit of depression; spirit of anxiety, etc) generational curse and bloodlines. Your husband seems to haven’t known Christ yet but you need to forgive him and keep on praying for him. Nobody can change him, only Jesus Christ. You can speak healing to your son. Anoint your son with an oil( any oil will do) and do it by faith. Jesus died for us and bu His steipes we are healed. As you read your Bible everyday, you also remember Him and awaits His coming through daily Holy Communion. After your daily devotion/ quiet time, decree and declare God’s healing grace and blessings upon your life and husband and son. You can also release creative angels to help you in rearing your child. Rebuke every principalities and devourers that hinder your spiritual growth and finacial breakthrough. God will provide all your needs as long as you are a good steward of the things that He blesses you. Cheer up! As we wait for our bridegroom Jesus Christ, seek Him and you will find Him. Ask for spiritual gifts to help you achieve your victory and be ready for the coming RAPTURE. You can listen or watch to Derek Prince, David Pawson, Skip Heitzig, Sid Roth’s ISN, Dr. Rebecca Brown, Jimmy Evans, Tom Horn, Billy Crone, David Jeremiah, John Ramirez, Reinhard Bonke, Peter Tanchi, Bong Saquing and many others. Jesus Christ is the only answer. Matthew 16:26 says- “What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world but loses his own soul”.

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Thank you so much! You make me strong because of your messages. I trust God with my whole heart. I always pray to Him that He is a great healer and He can make my son live longer and a heart warrior.